Comments on: Waiting on fear http://www.svahaconcepts.com/blog/the-internal-message/waiting-on-fear Content that Connects Mon, 23 Jan 2012 20:12:02 +0000 hourly 1 By: Grace http://www.svahaconcepts.com/blog/the-internal-message/waiting-on-fear/comment-page-1#comment-4419 Grace Tue, 15 Jun 2010 14:51:53 +0000 http://www.svahaconcepts.com/blog/?p=2384#comment-4419 <b>Alistair</b> - Yes, indeed. When the conversation stays stuck in your head - in the thought process - it tends to stay stuck in a loop. Talking or writing helps you discover - as you point out - what's going on, and often leads to discovering options that couldn't be seen before. Great point! Alistair – Yes, indeed. When the conversation stays stuck in your head – in the thought process – it tends to stay stuck in a loop.

Talking or writing helps you discover – as you point out – what’s going on, and often leads to discovering options that couldn’t be seen before.

Great point!

]]> By: Alistair http://www.svahaconcepts.com/blog/the-internal-message/waiting-on-fear/comment-page-1#comment-4417 Alistair Tue, 15 Jun 2010 03:44:48 +0000 http://www.svahaconcepts.com/blog/?p=2384#comment-4417 I find that writing things out, or discussing them with someone, does two things: 1) as you say, it reveals many of the things holding me back (fears, uncertainties) as just thoughts, might be's - i.e. phantoms that aren't real, that shouldn't stop you going ahead when you look at them properly. At which point you're left with 2) the real issues, if there are any. And in my experience once the real issues are clarified my problem solving self kicks in and starts properly analysing and evaluating, which it couldn't do before because I was letting fear and uncertainty paralyze me, and overwhelm me with too many choices and possibilities. I find that writing things out, or discussing them with someone, does two things: 1) as you say, it reveals many of the things holding me back (fears, uncertainties) as just thoughts, might be’s – i.e. phantoms that aren’t real, that shouldn’t stop you going ahead when you look at them properly. At which point you’re left with 2) the real issues, if there are any. And in my experience once the real issues are clarified my problem solving self kicks in and starts properly analysing and evaluating, which it couldn’t do before because I was letting fear and uncertainty paralyze me, and overwhelm me with too many choices and possibilities.

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