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Purple wedding cake, or, How I spent my Labor Day weekend

My friends Ana and Craig got married this past Sunday.

They’ve been a couple for about nine or ten years.  Way back in the beginning, I promised Ana that when they got married, I’d make her wedding cake.

She has a very good memory.

Therefore, I spent most of Saturday afternoon and all of Sunday morning making this:

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(Yes, that’s me peeking out from behind in the mirror!)

The cake was the exact color of her dress.  I’d like to say that was as planned – which it was, of course – but it was also wholly serendipitous.  I’d never seen the dress; all I had to go on was “purple.”  And it was very nearly a LOT MORE purple.  That tiny little jar of food coloring, discretely labelled “violet,” would color enough frosting for 100 more cakes that size.

She had about 90 people at the wedding, and the cake wasn’t even half eaten.  That’s not because of the taste:  it was good.  A rich, delicate yellow cake, with raspberry filling in the bottom layer, orange curd filling in the middle layer, and lemon curd filling in the top.  Yum.  People had seconds.

No, it was the sheer size of the thing.  The bottom layer is 12″, the middle is 10″, and the top is 8″.  I’d planned a smaller cake, but then I saw the cake topper, and I had to keep it in proportion, after all!

The frosting alone had 2 1/2 pounds of butter in it.

My kitchen looked like a purple butter bomb exploded in it.

It was fun.

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Comment from Mark Silver
Time September 8, 2009 at 4:04 pm

Grace- not fair posting a photo and description like that while I’m fasting for Ramadan… sigh… I’ll just have to make sure I find some piece of cake somewhere for after sundown tonight…

Look what you did.

Comment from Grace
Time September 8, 2009 at 4:27 pm

Mark:)

Comment from Karen
Time September 8, 2009 at 5:31 pm

Wow Grace! Now that does it- I officially think you are superwoman! Amazing cake. Girl, I’d put the pic up on facebook…Humbled (yet again) to be your friend, Karen

Comment from Grace
Time September 8, 2009 at 5:36 pm

Karen – Trust me. You didn’t see my kitchen. Superwoman’s kitchen would not have looked like a purple butter bomb exploded. I keep finding little purple dabs … I’ve never known a frosting that migrated like this one!

And thank you. It was a lot of fun!

Comment from Eileen
Time September 8, 2009 at 7:34 pm

OMG loving this! My mom made me a purple cake for my eighth birthday. Something magical about the color, I think :)

Comment from Grace
Time September 9, 2009 at 8:49 am

Eileen – I agree, there is something about purple, even for people who aren’t big fans of the colour.

You should have seen her purple silk gown – and all the purple decorations!

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